Monday, April 27, 2009

A Healthy Household, once again

Well, I think this is the first day in about a month that noone has woken up with a fever, sore throat, throwing up or some other ailment. It first started with the oldest child and made it's way through all of the kids. For some of them, it hit the twice, and for some it took weeks to get rid of.
Poor David, started a running a fever in the middle of Great Grandma's viewing, and my mom had to come and get him. His fever lasted 6 days. Now, he is one that when he gets sick, he drops weight, and is allergic to the common antibiotics you can give children. So, since the Dr had no idea what was wrong, they didn't want to just put him on antibiotics since most are too strong for him. So we watched, waited and prayed while he dropped a few pounds, till his fever disappeared and he started gaining his strength back. Now we need to help him gain weight again.



Another fun thing that happened. Right before easter we were at Walmart, when some out of control child ran straight into my youngest, Faith. Her head smacked into the cart and immediately she started to scream. The other childs mother came and grabbed her child, gave me a dirty look and proceeded to say something in spanish while pulling her child away from us. Now, I don't speak spanish, but I know enough to know that she wasn't apologizing. While part of me wanted to chase her down and make her acknowledge what her child had done to mine and make them apologize, my child was screaming and needed to be dealt with. When she finally pulled her face away from me, I noticed a horrible bruise already forming under her left eye. I looked up to see if they were still around, but they were long gone. So, Faith, got to wear a beautiful new easter dress with a black eye. We convinced her the black eye matched with her outfit. I mean pink and purple do go together right. She proudly showed off her black eye at church as an accessory along with her new purse and easter hat.


Thursday, April 23, 2009

Get them started young



We thought, given the bad economy and all, it might be a good idea for our kids to get jobs...haha.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Gray Hair

Well, it happened. I woke up today and found a very long, very gray hair in my bangs. It's official, I am getting old. :(
I don't know how I feel about that yet.
On a side note, I wanted to post my weight loss today. I actually am going in tomorrow to weigh in, but so far I have lost 47 1/2 lbs in 10 weeks...YAY!!!! Only about 60 more to go to reach my goal.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Finally, At Peace


Grams
May 24, 1926 - April 15, 2009
We will truly miss you. Thank you for all you have done for us. We are grateful you are now at peace. We love you Grandma. You lived a good life, and endured well to the end. You are a great example to all of us to live as we believe.

National Emergency Telecommunicators Week

For those of you who don't know what I do, I am a 911 calltaker, police and fire disptacher. I love my job. I love being able to help people.
This week is National Emergency Telecommunicators Week. This was sent around my work a while ago and was written by Sherrif Winder of the SLCO Sherrifs Dept. This describes what I do every night.

For my fellow dispatchers, thank you for all you do. You truly are heros.


What do you take for granted?

There are some things we all take for granted. We all walk into a room and turn on the light and expect that the lights will come on. We get into our car turn the key and expect that the engine will start. And many of us get into our police cars every day, check on and expect dispatch will be there.



Dispatch is always there and all too often we do take them for granted. We assume that no matter what happens we will always be able to push the button and someone will not only answer, but have the answers to some of the most bizarre questions. Who is responsible for the running water at 8850 West 2800 South? Will animal control respond on a missing python? Call the airport and tell them to stop the planes from coming over us. These and many, many more requests are received and addressed by our Dispatch Center every single day.


We all believe we have the hardest job, it is human nature, weather we are Patrol Deputies, Housing Officers or Intake Clerks we often convince ourselves that what we do is by far the most stressful and on any given day it may be. But take a moment and think about the role of the Dispatcher.


These men and women come to work every day and every night and immediately begin to field calls from angry, upset and frightened individuals. People who are in crisis are often not the nicest to deal with especially over the phone. They scream they threaten, and they demand. When the Deputies arrive on scene the people even if they were completely out of line on the phone with the dispatcher tend to calm down, after all they are now speaking face to face to another human and they are speaking with someone who may just take them to jail. But to the dispatcher no such restraint exists.


And unfortunately it is not just the public who speaks in less than kind tones to our dispatchers. Occasionally Deputies find themselves in stressful situations and may unintentionally take it out on the person on other end of the line. I have, on more than a few occasions heard Deputies bark at the dispatcher when they couldn't find an address, or when a tow truck failed to appear in a reasonable amount of time.


All of the stress of the rude and discourteous people pales in comparison to one aspect of the Dispatchers job.


Imagine sitting in a room with head phones on at 2:30 in the morning. You haven't heard the radio crackle for 30 minutes, then suddenly, you hear a Deputies' panicked voice. "Salt Lake Charlie 31, priority". Your heart begins to race as the adrenaline races into your blood, and yet you have to hold it together. "Go ahead 30". "Salt Lake I am 10-80 East bound 5400 South 4800 West, 100 Miles per hour blue Ford truck 3 suspects". Now your adrenaline really begins to pump and yet you still must hold it together. You hit the tones on your console alerting every on duty member of the Sheriffs Office that a pursuit has begun and at the same time you have just ensured that every Deputy, regardless of location is now switching to listen to YOUR pursuit.


"All units Charlie 30 is in pursuit East bound 5400 South from 4800 West with a blue ford truck occupied three times." The Deputy keys his microphone and nearly screams into the radio, "Salt Lake suspect has just gone dark, still east bound approaching 4000 West". Now the terror really sets in as you realize that a 5000 pound bullet, traveling 100 plus miles an hour is heading for a main intersection without its lights on. After repeating the Deputies traffic, you wait for the next location... and it doesn't come.


Dispatchers have many skills, skills that are honed over years of working under these stressful conditions and one of these skills is the ability to know how long is too long when it comes to a Deputies response. As the mental clock ticks, you become more and more concerned. "What's taking so long", you key your head set and you call, "Charlie 30",...no response, you wait a few more seconds, seconds that seem like hours, "Charlie 30" you say, your voice raising. Now not only are you afraid but so is every other person listening to the radio traffic. Has the chase ended? Are they out on foot? Does the Deputy have them at gun point? Or worst of all, has something happened to the Deputy.


After several attempts at trying to raise the pursuing deputy, and your heart sinking, you hear it. The traffic you have dreaded. "Charlie 35, I have arrived 4000 West 5400 South 10-50." Immediately you know what has happened. Two vehicles, one occupied by a person you have been working with for years, that were previously traveling at over 100 miles per hour are now in a twisted heap in an intersection miles away from where you are and there is now little if anything you can do.


As you hear the other Units Arrive it becomes clearer and clearer that something is terribly wrong. "Where is Charlie 30" you think and then you hear it, the sound of a Deputy screaming " send medical."


As the minutes click by you are only able to function because you must. After all, you still have much to do. You must still account for all of the other Units that are arriving, now from all over the valley. You must call for medical and provide as much detail as possible, and you must still hold it together!


Finally the words you wanted, and yet didn't want to hear. "Salt Lake we have 4 victims, 2 are 10-85 delta and 2 charlie minus." Now the reality of the dreadful situation sets in. "This is not good, not good at all", all of the victims are in critical condition and two are possibly fatal. And still no one has bothered to inform you how the Deputy is doing.


There is a phenomenon that occurs in these types of situations. The Deputies and emergency responders on the scene shift into a kind of automation. They know what to do and they are doing it, but for some reason they believe that the dispatchers, perhaps because they are not physically on scene don't need to know exactly what is going on. Because the men and women on the scene can see with there own eyes what is happening they become transfixed and loose sight of the fact that somewhere in a dimly lit room there is a person who is as much a part of the incident as any of them.


This, my friends, is stress. So remember next time you key that microphone, it isn't a light bulb turning on, or a car starting up, it's a human being, a friend, a partner and most importantly a vital part of our family.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

A Great Women

My husbands Grandmother is dying.
I was able to see her for a few minutes, to tell her I love her and tell her thank you for the influence she has been in my life. She helped inspire my husband to love the gospel. He remembers sitting at her house, reading scriptures and remembers a warm, peaceful feeling there. He describes her as one of the greatest women he has ever known. She helped to make him the person he is today, a hard worker, dedicated to the Gospel, honest, full of integrity.
Me, I remember eating Chinese food, guacamole, singing songs, playing card games and listening to stories about when she was a young mother, with hyper children. She gave me a lot of advice, some maybe I didn't appreciate so much, but some that helped make me, I hope, a better person, a better wife and a better mother. I love her and respect her for who she was and what she stood for.
It was so hard to see her suffering so, and I pray for the Lords mercy on her that she will not have to suffer much longer.
Thank you, Grandma. For everything. You are loved and you will be missed. Till we meet again.

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

New Jeans

I just went and bought 4 new pairs of jeans, 2 sizes smaller than I was in 2 months ago. Let's face it, well really 1 size but I was barely fitting into those and could only put them on if they were damp, and I layed on the bed and sucked it. Then I would walk around unable to breathe until they stretched out. So I should have been in a size bigger, but I refused to buy anything bigger. I have been told I am stubborn. I guess that proves it.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Gratitude List

I am grateful that when I wake up, at whatever time of day, my kids are always happy to see me. They rush up from where ever they are in the house to give me a hug and tell me 5 million things at once.
I am grateful for spring. Except this spring, I really wish it would just stop snowing.
I am grateful for my health.

Update

I have lost 5 more lbs this week. I am so excited. I need to lose 3 more to hit another goal I set for myself, so that I can get my hair colored. YAY!!! I am hoping I can lose the majority of what I need to so that I can look good when I take my husband on a super secret 15th anniversary trip I am planning for us this September. I am not so sure we are going to be able to go to Disneyland this August.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Gratitude List

I am grateful that even though my kids seem out of control sometimes, at school and other places, they are well behaved and that their teachers are all glad to have them in their class. Their teachers are constantly commenting on how polite and helpful they are, and how they are always happy. One teacher commented on time, that Dallin was like her morning cup of coffee. She would start out having a bad day but he would always say hi and give her a compliement, and that would make her day better.

Kids

I was reading my sister in laws' blog about funny sounds or words her kids are saying/doing lately. It reminded me of when my older kids were much smaller. I didn't write a lot down like I should have, and normally I don't have a good memory, but where my kids are concerned I can remember quite a bit.
When my oldest, Hope, was around 18 months, she woke up one morning, crying for a "bano". She walked around the house looking for this "bano" and I had no idea what it was. For about a week she was constantly asking about it and we were clueless as to what she wanted. One day we were out on a drive and passed by a car dealership that was having a large sale and she started screaming "Bano! Bano!" We realized she was pointing to the several ballons that were tied all over the place. "Bano" = Balloon. Ahhh. Then I remembered, she had a balloon that popped just prior to going to bed. So we stopped at a store and got her a ballon, and she was happy again.
Dallin, didn't really talk until he was 2, but he would say a few words here and there. His first word was "this", 2nd word was "that". Whenever he wanted something he would just point and say "this" It was pretty entertaining. When he did talk, his phonics were amazing. I think he just waited to talk until he knew he could do it right. When he was just over 2, he came in to my room one morning and said "Mom, can you get me a bowl of cereal please?" I about fell out of bed because the night before, it was just animal noises and grunts. From then on, it was complete sentences for him.
I'll save more memories for a later time. That's all for now.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Diet Secret

Eat protien for breakfast, within an hour of waking up.
That has been very hard for me. Not the protien part, but eating breakfast. Mostly because I wake up at all different times of the day. But, I have been trying to eat 2 eggs for breakfast within an hour after waking up. Sometimes I have a protien shake. Protien within an hour of waking up is suppose to kick start your metabolism for the day.

Gratitude List

I am grateful for my husband and all that he does to lead this family righteously. I admire his persistance and dedication. And most of all I am grateful for his desire to please our Father in Heaven. He is a great example for me
I am grateful for a job, in this tough economy, that is helping to take care of my family.
I am grateful for the time I get to spend with my children each day. I learn so much from them every single day.

Scripture Time

At the beginning of the year, we decided to spend time each night reading out of the scriptures with our kids. Now, we had been doing this, but we were reading out of the Book of Mormon reader, and illustrated stories from the Old/New Testament and Book of Mormon, which is fine when you have small kids, but when they start getting to be teenagers, that bores them and they don't want to participate.
So we decided to read out of the actual scriptures. We are starting with the Book of Mormon. When we first started our night went something like this. We would read a verse, then each child would proceed to ask what certian words meant. Often each child would ask what the same word went. So to read a chapter was a very time consuming event, fraught with headaches, kids getting tired and losing interest and parents becoming frustrated, but trying not to show it so that it wouldn't drive the Spirit, if it was there, away.
Now we are almost done with 2 Nephi, we finish the last chapter tonight. And I noticed something last night. While we still are explaining what words means, the questions from the kids have turned more to "what does this verse mean?" and "isn't this like the verse in this chapter that we read a few weeks ago?" WOW. They are actually paying attention and learning something. We have had some very good conversations with the kids about the scriptures. And they are sharing their feelings about it. There has been such a strong spirit present, often times it is very hard to stop the discussion for bed.
It's times like this that I realize why patience and persistance are important. And like maybe, just maybe we are doing something right.